Are You A Boy Or Are You A Girl?

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Here is a link to the Kickstarter page for my book!


I am proud to announce that the crowd fundiing project to raise the money to print my first children’s book starts on Tuesday! Readers of this blog can get access to a limited number of discounted pre-orders, 30% off by ordering from on Tuesday 30th September!

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‘Are you a Boy or are you a Girl?’ is unlike any kind of children’s book you’ve seen before. With your help, we can talk gender creatively and with confidence, and assist parents and teachers the world over.

The problem with most of the books currently on sale for children is that they portray gender, something most of us know to be, in fact, quite flexible, to be fixed at birth.. And yet at least 1 in 100 people are born gender variant in some way and for some, not being open about their true gender can lead to a lifetime of pain and suffering. Psychologically speaking, children need the space, freedom and encouragement to express themselves fully, before they can grow into happy adults.

For those of us who want to have this conversation with our children the hard part can be finding the right words. How do you explore concepts like; gender binary, biological sex, psychological gender, transgender, GenderQueer, and all those others lovely complex things to a child who thinks sticking a bean in their ear is the apex of awesomeness? The truth is that our children get a very binary experience of the world and trying to show them options other than Action Man or Barbie can seem an insurmountable task. ‘Are you a Boy or are you a Girl?‘ will simply open the dialogue with your child.Where that dialogue ends up, much like our gender-free protagonist, is up to you!

I would love for this book to be in every school, nursery and library in the world so am working with a wonderful charity called Gendered Intelligence to create an educational resource pack to send to schools, to equip them with the tools they need to better educate children about gender.


One thought on “Are You A Boy Or Are You A Girl?

  1. Hi

    We noticed your book on kickstarter, it really is a great idea you have come up with, however we have noticed that you don’t have a photorealistic image of your book!

    We have contacted you because we offer this service, giving your book a more realistic look to potential backers has been shown to increase funding as people get a feel for what they will actually be getting rather than just seeing a cover image and a block of text.

    We offer Photorealistic 3D images of your book from various angles and on various backgrounds, we realize a book is a very personal thing and we cater to individual needs for each book.

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    We look forward to hearing from you soon, Good luck with your project.


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